Before we can tell people they can be or do anything. We need to tell them that they can and are allowed to struggle to be or do anything. Once we accept the struggle and embrace the emotions that come with it instead of hiding them to be “stronger”, then we can become stronger. Learn a stronger sense of self.

Accept that we may need to cry to work out the emotions that go with the struggle.

This allows us to know whether or not we want to be the “anything” we are striving for or if we want to take a different course.