I save many things. Old conversations. Photos. Etc. but today it paid off. It showed me an inside into why a relationship never happened. I was sitting here going… huh this doesn’t make sense by all intensive purposes we should be married, laughing on our porch during covid happy as can be.
- We were patient with each other.
- We laughed at each other.
- We cooked for each other.
- We checked in on each other.
- Both our parents loved the other.
But turns out we just made a really good summer rom com since the first time we met. And weren’t meant for each other.
Our summers were filled with memories and love. Adventures and experiences.
But when the summers ended our lives took over our ability to dedicate time to each other. And it ended as quickly and as fast as it began.
It’s interesting how over time we forget the reasons things don’t work out in relationships. But we remember the good moments clear as day. Either way I know this person will be in my top 10 friendships of all time regardless of how it all turned out. And for that I am grateful.